To Be Or Not To Be – What’s Your Life’s Strategy?

My Thoughts | 8 Comments

July, 27th


Life’s full of choices, isn’t it? From the time you’re born to the time you die, you’ve so many decisions to make. But, yet they say, God controls our lives. How? He’s been asking you what you want to do on every step of life. What you choose today, will decide what you will be tomorrow. So, it is very important to take the right decision.

Where there are choices, there are confusions. Don’t you get confused, ever? C’mon, No One’s Perfect!! At least I’m not. I don’t believe in the word “Perfect”!! It’s so obvious to get confused. So, how do you make a choice?

It’s simple to tell how to take a right decision, but its difficult to make someone learn to take a decision. It’s very common with me that I get confused. Well, actually this post is also an outcome of such confusion. Since, I’m so new to blogging and with my hectic schedule; it was very difficult for me to decide what to write on. So, whenever I get confused, I make up a plan to get out of the maze. I love puzzles!

Everybody has a life’s strategy. It’s so important to have a set of rules, an algorithm, For everything. Take example of anything around you. Think if it weren’t the way it is. Very basic, something that happens with me everyday and week on! If you don’t place even a pen at its set place, you’re bound to get lost when you need it. Then, one thing leads to another, and the room becomes ONE BIG MESS!!

How we decide what’s right or wrong decides the quality of our decision and ultimately the quality of our life. Like they say, people who learn from other’s mistakes are smart. But, I say people, who make mistakes themselves, then learn how to correct them, are even better, since they would have the hands-on experience of making a wrong decision and correcting it with a right one.

All in all, what’s most important is that you need to have the courage and confidence to take a decision for yourself. The only one stopping you is YOU!!!

Good decisions come from experience, and experience comes from bad decisions.

I hope this video strikes a bell for some!




Kick Started My Blogging – Chandigarh Bloggers Meet-up.

Chandigarh Bloggers | 7 Comments

July, 11th


So, now you know who I’m and what I’m here for. But how and why Blogging? Of course I’m gadgy and techy but not to the extent that I would sacrifice my time from friends, family, life and leisure and sit in front of my system day in - day out. I satisfy my carvings for technology at work. I live moderately, a balance of all the right things at right time. Unlike me, my hubby is much more technology starved and gadgy than me. He is a Web-developer by Passion!

Well, lately my balanced life was being upset because of my husband’s newest passion, Blogging! I was disturbed that he’s spending all of his time in office and home doing nothing other than - Blogging. He always told me about how other great bloggers have their wives help them in this. It made me wonder how would they be managing their professional, social and personal lives.

My bad! I never took time out to find what interests him so much in blogging? Well, he did his best to involve me into this new discovery. So much so, he created this site with all his heart and I had nothing to fill it up with. Not long after, I realized he’s getting away from it just for me. Was I being mean to him? Of course, that goes unsaid!! I decided to dive in with him. All for Love!! :-)

Then I heard about the Chandigarh bloggers meet-up. What is it? Bloggers’ getting together? What for? Don’t they just sit-n-write about anything and everything? So what’re they gonna do with this meet? Are they running out of ideas to write? Many more funny and stupid thoughts ran across my mind? I decided this was the time to take a leap. I had a shift that day and had not slept previous night too. It didn’t seem to matter when I saw him so happy to see me coming with him.

Well the meeting started and people came in to give their intro. The clouds were clearing and I was moving to a new Dawn. Then came a reporter from local newspaper to cover the meet, he asked what was left unsaid. How is this community gonna effect the society? Everybody gave in their reviews. I was amazed with the energy & enthusiasm I saw in every single person sitting in the room. People were so willing to and some had already started giving their bit to this world by way of blogging.

I was already swimming in pool of thoughts about my blog. I just knew what it’s gonna be and what for. As my hubby always said:

“Its All About Anything and Everything You’re Most Passionate About”.

I can’t stop myself from writing Thank You So Much, to my Darling Hubby Mohit for his unending love & support and keeping the trust in me to write.

At last, I cannot miss to mention the encouragement I got from all the Chandigarh Blogger’s:  Mr. Bakshi, Gaurav, Abhinav, Jasdeep, Abhishek, Sameer, Rajesh, Sorabh, Preeti, Sukhbir, I’m truly thankful to you all for sharing your experiences and motivating me to write.

I’m Loving It!!!